Meet Tamara
I support a process of remembrance. A journey back to self.
Life force, Creation, authentic expression and bliss.
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A Nourishing Relationship with Self, Life and those we experience it with.
Tamara is a certified Relationship / Intimacy and Consciousness Coach.
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Deeply attuned to all life is a relationship, this awareness allows for reciprocal nourishment in our experience of life. , Tamara has incorporated elements of coaching, energy-based healing and sacred plant medicine into deeply transformative programmes and training.
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Tamara embodies the balance of Freedom and Love that we all crave and therefore inspires and empowers others to develop a healthy relationship with Body, Mind and Soul. Allowing for authentic living to be the experience.
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Are you ready to:
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Create a deeper more intimate connection with yourself, and your partner?
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Surrender and Trust yourself and your partner?
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Be brave, vulnerable and authentic?
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Express your feelings without guilt or shame?
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Transform abandonment, rejection, failure, success, not being good enough, being lonely or unloved?
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Activate your life force / Sexual energy
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Cultivate Healthy Relationships
For you I offer,
A safe space for acceptance of all aspects of self. A safe place to explore a deeply sacred intimate relationship with self, and our desire for life and truly living. Allowing the experience of life to be lived through us in our daily experiences.
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​"WHEN I LET GO OF WHO I AM, I BECOME WHO I MIGHT BE
- LAO TZU
My Journey ...
My gratitude and passion for the capacity and freedom I hold today is the acceptance of the perfection of my life.
The journey I have experienced and the layers of acceptance and love I hold for all the pain and happiness in these experiences. Only in this have I found the space within myself of trust and freedom to truly live my own unique expression and desire for life.
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A background of sexual abuse, a contract of marriage and narcissistic relationships that all triggered aspects of self that lay deeply hidden and haunted me daily. Through a deeply painful period where there was no place to hide, yet only feel all that I had tried to control for so long. I discovered the courage and gift of acceptance. Acceptance of all aspects of self as the perfect guide to my relationships and life.
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The shame, guilt and fear becoming my greatest ally in freedom.
To live in today and the bliss of an intimate relationship with self and life. The gift I now get to share with the world.
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My greatest teachings, the power of vulnerability and the courage of acceptance of all aspects of self. Creating the most sacred intimate relationship with self.
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Nathan Raaths
Shadows of Light
I’m not your typical healer, but my unconventional path has made me highly effective. It took me over a decade to accept my calling, often doubting myself. Yet, each time I was ready to quit, I experienced breakthroughs with clients that reinforced my purpose.
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My personal suffering has prepared me to understand the depths of despair. I made a promise to myself during my darkest times to help others find the courage, acceptance, and love they need to heal. For the past 13 years, I've been dedicated to this mission.
I specialize in working with individuals who are deeply hurt and struggling. My role is in spiritual crisis management, guiding clients through their most challenging moments until they no longer need my help.
I help facilitate the spaces of death and rebirth in people’s lives, blending my love for God, the wisdom from my own experiences, and a promise I made to myself. I often receive inner messages and guidance on how to help those who come to me.
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If you think you can't be helped, I’d be honored to try. My heart lies with the black sheep, the way showers, the mind expanders. I hope to be a light in the darkness when you need it most.
I founded the Mad Hatters Contemporary Shamanic Community and co-founded Wake Circle. I’ve also studied combat arts, earning a Black Belt in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.
www.nathanraaths.co.za
“We hit a wall in our intimate life 16 years into our relationship. When we looked for help, much of it didn't have a practical way to implement it, and we struggled with learning the work in a way that honoured both our relationship and our individual journeys..".
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After learning how to redesign our 28 year relationship, and moving deeply into somatic bodywork and nervous system reset work, we realised we could help more people by teaching what we knew and training other people.
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We chose to teach coaches who wanted to help people learn more about their intimate selves, sensuality, somatic relationships and guide them towards what worked as an intimacy journey for them personally
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After years of actually learning the somatic and nervous system work behind great pleasure and intimacy experiences, we designed trainings and certifications to teach wellness professionals and coaches, to include practical and holistic intimacy coaching for their clients and now work with over 70 Certified Intimacy Coaches around the world
With life and laughter
From the founders of Intimacy Coach International
Annie & Tim
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Contact
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You can contact our team via email or by filling out the form.
We'll get back to you as soon as possible.
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Fridays with Tamara. Feels like this should be a book title. Only trouble with that idea is that I don’t think I will ever find the words to fully articulate what this coaching journey has meant to me.
I guess I will have to feel it instead. Tam holds an exceptional space. Exploring what comes up within it has been one of the great odysseys of my life
Thanks for holding the space for allowing me to express myself to someone who truly understands pain...
A pain not everyone will understand... And pain I hope no one has to go through... Ever..
Thanx Tammy for walking this journey with me....
- Anon
"The world tells us, who we should be, creating limiting beliefs and bounderies in the deepest parts of our
minds, hearts and souls.
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Tamara gently shines light into these corners and reminds you of the most beautiful, courageous parts of yourself. When this happens, you find your own power and celebrate your own beauty without compromise...
and she never leaves your side!"